Athens, Greece
Last night, a friend of a friend pointed out that adventures are not adventures if you knew everything in advanced. He is craving for an adventure, but knows it is not yet the time. His work and current responsibilities are demanding his attentions. He is happy, but he does not want things to trap him and “ground him”. Today I woke up very confused. Confusion is a state that has been accompanying me for a really… and I say really long time. My strategy is to do not make choices when I do not know what to do. Hence, I do not want to fall into the comfort of not making decisions and not assuming responsibilities (this word again), for sometimes it is easier to “let things happen”. So how do we embrace this principle of serendipity, “adventure”, and improvisation to be present in our lives -I mean my life- without falling asleep on the couch and having a “free for all” attitude? This is my question now. I do not know the answer yet, but I am finding ways to go along the ride of self-knowledge.
Yesterday, I pulled a card out of my Astrological Oracle.
In my young adulthood I developed an affinity for astrology, energy, tarot and oracles which I left aside for like around 6 years. Oracles and tarots are not necessary intended to “tell you the future”, but to connect you with your inner wisdom, intuition and your energetic present moment. It is a mirror of yourself and the universal knowledge that moves us.
Saturn visited me… I felt uncomfortable because the day before I also pulled a card… guess which one it was… SATURN. According to this oracle’s guide Saturn is representative to containment, boundaries and limitations. Intuition plays an important part on oracle reading; the Call for me was to set my own boundaries.. to be clear in my limits. This has been a very hard task to do, because I have always been confronted with this aspect of myself; hence, since I got robbed last year, my indecisiveness have flourished to slapped me in the face. Hey I am a Libra but I won’t go there.
Dear Saturn, it is quite difficult to know what are your boundaries when you are discovering yourself in a new context. I am allowing Athens to speak to me again, I know what I am hearing is different to what I heard last year, and in 2012. Nonetheless, at the core I know what keeps me centered. Here, in NYC, in Puerto Rico, in Edinburgh: personal rituals, believes, and expectancies. Noticed I use the expectancies instead of expectations, for I believe the latter refers to the “ideas” of how things, people and situations should be/act; on the other hand expectancies speak to me about disposition and openness. I know things are going to happen, I might also have some expectations due to prior references, but this state of being suggests the capacities to “let things unfold” allowing that new information to dialogue with our previous experiences. In this re-experience of things I -we- re-construct ourselves. Sigh!! This is the choreography of life at its best!!
How does this relates to my mobility, or the enactment of leaving Puerto Rico without knowing or pre-determined when am I going back. I believe this is the core of becoming and being in mobility: dislocation, getting lost and finding my-selves along the way. This I have realized is the essence of my life-work so far, it has taken me more than 10 years to embrace it, not without fear/confrontation.
I am moving…